My wife and I are having a BBQ here at the house, which is in colonia, NJ right off the parkway, exit 131. Very easy to get too. Nothing to bring.

Festivities start around 1-2pm or so and continue until "whenever". Come alone, bring your better half, bring kids, whatever floats your boat. We have an inground pool as well.

Email me if you're going to come and I'll send you my phone and directions from the parkway. My email is in this image (to prevent spammers from torturing me yet again):

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